My son fell to the earth. Like all my mother, I was happy, joyful, and even excitedly.Embracing his soft body every day, looking at his smile on his smile is a great happiness.I remember that he took the first time, called his mother for the first time, and walked into the kindergarten for the first time.I grew up with him and share his innocence, rebellion and little sadness.The son is almost 5 years old. In his words, he is already a big baby in the middle class. He has his own ideas. I also constantly think about what he needs, what the family should give him, what to do to help him healthyHow to do happily, how to do it is worthy of being the first teacher of the child’s life.
Recently, the Ministry of Education issued the “Guiding Opinions on Strengthening Family Education Work”, which put forward requirements for schools, parents, and society, especially what parents of children should do in different ages.Improve parents’ educational responsibility and awareness of role models.Reading carefully, I am very enlightened. I think there are three things for each parent. Every parent should think and do well.
First, what environment should we create for children?
Orange Born Huainan is orange, and was born in Huaibei.It can be seen that the growth environment is critical to people, and a large extent determines the child’s psychological quality and personality development.In the past, Meng’s mother chose her neighbors.As modern parents, we should create a good growth environment for children.Security is the basic bottom line.In recent years, frequent occurrences have caused children to fall, crash, drowning, etc., have caused a sad tragedy.We must attract aspects, earnestly fulfill the responsibility of good parents’ guardians, and teach children to protect their knowledge and basic self -rescue skills in daily life to protect their children’s life safety.Harmony is a fertile soil.Some parents in life think that their children do not understand the adult world, and they have no matter how they quarrel in front of their children, and even speak bad words, causing psychological damage to their children.Parents’ love is the best gift for children. The harmonious family atmosphere can make children feel safe and happy. There are examples of learning love. When they grow up, they have the ability to love.Democracy is the source of cultivation.To treat children as an equal individual, we must not say a word, nor can they scold the child at will.If you have something to discuss with your children, respect their ideas, children make mistakes, to explain the truth to the child and encourage children to correct them.Really establish the relationship between partners and friends, share happiness and trouble together, and help children grow up healthy and happy.
Second, what demonstration should we make for our children?
Parents are the object of imitation of children, and they are also the most important moral education teacher of children. It is better to teach as well as the truth of the child.Promote the traditional family style.Chinese culture has a long history, with profound guidelines, benevolence, wisdom and trustworthiness, Wenliang and frugality. As parents, we must consciously practice traditional virtues, filial piety to their parents, be modest and courteous, keep their promises, work hard, form a unique family style, and guide the subtle guidance.Children establish a correct worldview, outlook on life, and values.Persist in good habits.Mr. Tao Xingzhi said that sowing behaviors have harvested the habit; the habit of sowing, the personality is harvested.It can be seen that good behavior habits are the foundation of sound personality formation.Family is a place of cultivation. Parents’ lives affect their children’s habits.We must adhere to physical exercise with our children, read good books together, and use the network to use the network to achieve a healthy life.Keep a positive attitude.In recent years, the news of primary and secondary school students has also seen all news due to learning, emotion and other issues, and the child’s mental health has attracted much attention.Parents are people who protect their children the most, and are more likely to perceive their children’s emotional changes.We must help children alleviate bad emotions in time, pay attention to psychological counseling in adolescence, and we must treat life actively and optimistic. We are not afraid of being sleepy.
Third, how should we cooperate with the school?
Family education does not exist in isolation. It is necessary to help each other with school education and social education and organically integrate in order to maintain education consistency and play a greatest role.
Communicate closely with schools.It is necessary to actively participate in the school organization’s parent schools, parent meetings, parent open days, parent reception day, etc., constantly update the concept of education, actively communicate with the teacher’s ideological status and behavioral performance at home, provide a reference direction for school education, and cooperate with cooperationThe school carried out targeted family guidance to form a benign interaction of family education and school education.Actively participate in practice.Regularly participate in the experience, special investigations, research travel, red tourism, volunteer service and social welfare activities with children, while promoting parent -child communication, helping children understand society, experience society, integrate into society, and realize family education and social educationOrganic fusion.Respect the law of growth.Academic performance is always the focus of parents’ attention, but blindly increasing children’s academic burden will be counterproductive.We must respect the laws of children’s development and learning characteristics, jointly formulate learning goals, adopt effective measures to stimulate children’s interest in learning, cultivate children’s positive learning attitudes, so that children are happy because of learning and growing due to learning.
